As
you enter my hometown of Marion, Ohio there is an Ohio-shaped
sign that reads, “Hometown of Warren G. Harding, the 29th
President of the United States.” There is no footnote, however,
that says he was also a scoundrel and a womanizer.
A sign outside of Wapakoneta,
Ohio reads, “Hometown of Neal
Armstrong, the first man on the moon.” A sign outside of
French Lick, Indiana reads, “Hometown of basketball legend,
Larry Bird.”
Towns that can’t claim famous people or historic events
find other reasons to boast. Think of all the signs that read, “Home
of State Champion Class AAA Football Team.” Towns with no
famous people, historic events, or sports programs must be more
resourceful. Rose Hill, North Carolina is home to the world’s
largest frying pan. Bucyrus, Ohio is the self-proclaimed “The
Bratwurst Capital of America.” New Auburn, Wisconsin’s
sign reads, “We’re Halfway Between the North Pole and
the Equator.” I recall a little town that boasted, “Home
to Not Much of Anything.”
Nazareth was like that.
Nazareth had no reason to boast. You may remember what people
said when they heard where Jesus was from—“Can
anything good come from Nazareth?” It was just a bump on
the arid landscape where people lived as they had for centuries.
No one expected that Nazareth would be ground zero for the beginning
of a human-divine drama.
In Nazareth there lived
a quiet young woman no older than thirteen or fourteen. She was
no different from other girls her age. Her
father had “arranged” her betrothal to an older man.
She was anxious about it, but there was nothing to do but accept
the arrangement. At least her life would be predictable. She would
marry, and leave her home and family to live with her husband.
She would bear children, cook, clean, sew and pick up the kids
from soccer practice. She “let it be unto her according to
tradition.”
No one could have imagined
that she had been chosen to give birth to what the great preacher
Harry Emerson Fosdick called, “the
most decisive baby in the world.” There was no way of knowing
that 2,000 years later she would be remembered as, “Mary
the Mother of God,“ or that her gold-leafed figure would
keep watch above Notre Dame’s golden dome.
God was weary of waiting
for us to come to him, so God called the angel Gabriel to announce
a change of strategy. “Go to
Nazareth and find a virgin engaged to a man named Joseph.” Gabriel
found Mary sitting by a lamp addressing wedding invitations. He
hovered before her and said, “Hail, O favored One, the Lord
is with you!” How would you react if you were balancing your
checkbook and a shimmering, luminous being appeared out of nowhere
and said, “Hail, favored one. Have I got something for you!” You
would either scream or melt because you would be too petrified
to run.
“God’s got a plan, Mary, and you are part of it! Don’t
be afraid. Gabriel You have found favor with God. You will conceive,
bear a son, and name him Jesus.” Finding favor with God.
God’s favors don’t seem favorable. God’s favors
complicate life. Many figures in the Bible tried to defend themselves
Against God’s call. “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh?” Moses
protested. “The Egyptians won’t listen to me.” God
picked Jeremiah to be a prophet, and Jeremiah said, “You
don’t want me. I’m just a kid! I have taken speech
yet!”
God doesn’t pick helpers with great resumes. When God has
a task, God calls the inexperienced, the unqualified, folks without
credentials. God does it this way so there is no confusion that
the work is God’s, not ours, and the power by which it will
be done is God’s, and not ours.
Picture Mary
on her knees before Gabriel and his great, unfurled wings. He
doesn’t ask here if she would like to try out for
the part. He doesn’t say, “Think it over and I’ll
get back to you.” He doesn’t ask if she is willing.
He calls her blessed. He tells her not to be afraid. He tells her
she will bear God’s son and not to worry about the “virginity
thing” because nothing is impossible with God, and that Joseph
will accept the situation -- eventually. It wouldn’t be
easy, but it would work out because Gabriel promised Mary, “The
power of the most high will overshadow you.”
Mary did not behave
like Moses, Jeremiah, Jonah or the others who fought their selection.
She didn’t tell Gabriel, “Thanks,
but no thanks.” She gave no excuses, or pragmatic reasons
to say no. “Let it be unto me according to your word,” Mary
replied. “Count me in.”
Lauren Winner said, “These good tidings Gabriel brings are
tidings of a lifetime of interruptions.” Phyllis Carter once
told me that ministry is about learning to deal with interruptions.
That sounded disconcerting to me.
When I make plans I
stick to them. When I’m engrossed in
something, I don’t want to be bothered. “Tell them
to call back later. I’m busy.” It didn’t take
me long to realize that ministry IS interruptions. Ministry is
learning to set aside my agenda to tend to something that may well
be on God’s agenda in that moment.
A son was born to Lewis
and Ruth Bibbee in July 1953. As I slipped from the womb I let
out my first cry to announce that I had come
to interrupt their lives. Nothing would be the same for them. They
didn’t take their first look at me and say, “Now we
did it. How are we supposed to take care of this kid the next eighteen
years?” At least I hope they didn’t say that.
My life was going according
to plan. Then my Mom’s caner
returned. I hadn’t planned on taking care of my mother the
last six months of her life. Years before I thought about the possibility,
and concluded, “There is no way I could do that.” Cancer
intruded upon Mom’s life and mine, and an interesting thing
happened. I never once thought, “I can’t do it!” There
was no question that I would do it. Mom’s illness created
a lot of upheaval. The future seemed up for grabs. But the power
of the Most High overshadowed me.
I realized that it wasn’t “THE” interruption
of the disease and Mom moving in with me that was the issue. It
was all of the little unanticipated interruptions. “I know
you’re busy, but the doctor’s office called and said
a prescription was phoned in for me. Could you get it now?” “You’ve
been gone doing church business every night this week. Why don’t
you stay home and tell them to have the board meeting without you?”
Mary responded to God
in obedience and great humility. I wish I would consistently
do the same, but I don’t. I’ve
got important matters to take care of today. Time is precious,
and I can’t afford to let anyone or anything waste it. Then
the phone rings. A salesman shows up. Someone says, ‘You
better visit Mrs. Thorn-In-the-Flesh. She’s upset about something
you said in a sermon.’” Substitute your own version
of interruptions and you’ll know what I mean.
“Let it be unto me,” is a humble recognition that
our time is not our own. Our issues don’t matter much alongside
the issues that matter to God. When God dwells within us, our perspectives
get messed up. Things no one cares about become our priorities.
Looking away from broken people and the situations that broke them
is no longer an option. Having said yes to God’s kingdom,
we say no to the Empire in which we live.
Wednesday was one of
those days when nothing went right. I was focused on finishing
a writing project when someone came to the
door. I walked to the door I saw a black man standing outside the
entrance. “How can I help you?” I asked. “Are
you the pastor… and the Sunday school teacher and the Bible
study leader and the deacon and the counselor and the janitor of
this church?” “I’m the guy,” I replied.
Jerry is his name. He is the pastor a small church on Oakland
Avenue. He wanted to ask some questions about our building and
take a tour. I could spare ten or fifteen minutes, but it turned
into an hour and a half. The discussion drifted from the church
building to church people and the trials and triumphs of ministry.
We soon realized we have the same members who change their names
and race and go from one church to the other. He also talked about
his struggles since his wife died two years ago.
As we walked the hall
he looked into the primary class and said, “My
grandkids would love this room. I have four of them at Concord
East Side.”
"Mrs.
Fritz is their principal.” “How do you know that?” “She’s
a church member,” I replied. Jerry said, “She’s
a fine lady. I’ve had to talk with her about the behavior
of my grandkids.”
“Where do you live?” I asked. “56863 County
Road 13.” “Really? I live at 56559 CR 13.” “Really?
Jerry said. “You live ten houses from me and my son lives
across the street from you.” He asked if I live in the house
Bruce Barwick built. “Yes, I do,” I replied. “I’ve
know Bruce for years. He’s a good builder and a fine man.” “I
know,” I said. “He’s also a member of our church.” “This
is unreal,” he laughed.
We walked into the office
where Norma Miller was covering the phone. “Should I know you?” he asked. “You look
so familiar. Where did you work? Norma replied, “I used to
work at a dry cleaners.” “Was it the cleaners that
had a robbery about twenty-five years ago?” Norma looked
surprised and said, “Yes… but how do you remember that?” “Easy,” he
said. “They stole my wife’s mink coat!”
Then our conversation
turned to the realm of speculation. “What
would you think about our churches doing something together?” “I
sounds great to me,” I responded. “We could use some
help with engaging our bodies in worship and not just our heads.
We have a lot to learn about outreach, too. You see, we like to
talk about it, but don’t get around to doing it. You could
be our teachers.” Anyone interested?
God showed me that my
plans weren’t more important than
his. We typically don’t think this way, but the birth is
Jesus isn’t the only reason we should be merry at Christmas.
It is Merry because Mary teaches us the value of allowing ourselves
to be interrupted.